Every Thought Counts

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Getting back to the theme of prenatal adaptation to maternal environment; internal and external, I would like to tell a little story about I woman I know. It’s a true story. A well educated healthy young woman friend was pregnant for the first time. Upon seeing the growth of her belly I said, “Hey, you’re pregnant!That’s great!”

“No it isn’t she said, it’s twins” She was practically crying, absolutely maudlin.

“Wow, twins, so cool. . . I always wanted twins.” I said.

“Not me, I couldn’t stop crying when I found out. I don’t want twins.”

Oh boy, I remember thinking to myself that this woman should be careful what she asks for and tells her babies, and that she should be jumping for joy. Two babies, so precious.

Months went by, I would see her in passing, she was getting quite round in the belly like most pregnant women do. We had a little visit when she was 35 weeks pregnant. She said she hadn’t felt much if any fetal movement in the last few days.

“Didn’t your doctor tell you, you are supposed to call or go in immediately if you don’t feel any movement in 24 hours?” She had the twin expert as her OB in the teaching hospital in the city. She had already told me that this doctor hardly ever spoke to her and had told her nothing of the sort.

When she was walking away, I tapped her on her shoulder and said, “Go call your doctor, now!” She said she would.

Two weeks later, I saw her again. She was walking with her husband and her baby, singular. One of the twins had died. She told me she called the expert doctor at the hospital after we last spoke 2 weeks ago; it was a Friday. She said the doctor told her to wait until Monday to come on in to be seen. She waited. On Monday it was determined that the one twin was dead. She had an emergency C-Section. The one twin survived and it was determined that the other had been dead since the Thursday prior. There was no determinable cause of death for this baby. The mother wanted to sue the doctor, it was his fault right?

No medical cause, no deformation, no short cord, no determinable cause. The mother’s mantra from the moment she found out she was pregnant with twins:”I don’t want twins, I am not happy about this at all.”

What do you think that baby knew? YOUR BABY IS CONNECTED TO YOUR THOUGHTS, FEELINGS And EMOTIONS as it is adapting to it’s physical environment. Your baby knows if it is wanted and loved or not. Your baby will adapt accordingly and make it’s own choices dependent upon your thoughts, feelings and words. Your baby hears every thought you think!